
Fostering -- all your questions answered
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Why foster?
The main reason to foster is to help save lives of very deserving dogs! There are always
more than we can help, but the number of foster homes that we have in our group
limits the number of lives we save. At this time, we only have 5 permanent
foster homes, many of our dogs are in temporary foster situations where
someone has stepped forward to foster a stray they found or their own dog that
they need to re-home. These homes are great and very much appreciated, however,
we cannot place another dog in that spot once the current dog is adopted like
we do with permanent foster homes.
Fostering provides an opportunity to learn more about mixed breeds, different pure breeds
and types of dogs. It is very exciting to learn more about dogs in general, but
also to see the difference in breeds. You may even find a breed you like that
you never would've considered as a pet for yourself!
Another benefit is that now you will have friends, who gladly and openly discuss dog
poop in all its variations and other dog / pet issues that you may never had
the opportunity to discuss! Plus,
if your house currently has carpeting and you want to talk your partner into
Pergo flooring, just foster a couple litters of puppies and they'll come
around!
The numbers do speak for themselves, for every foster home that fosters 10 months a year,
we can save approximately another 6 dogs and even more puppies (they tend not
to stay in the foster home as long).
Why not to foster (Yes, you read it right!)
Hmmmm,
this is a little tougher for someone who so enjoys the foster dogs, but there
are some very solid reasons not to foster. The main reason would be not having
enough time’ you can work a full-time job and foster, but you have to be
willing to get up a little earlier than normal to exercise the foster dog and
expect to come home and spend time once again exercising and working with the
foster dog’ expect a minimum of 2-3 hours per day that need to be spent with
the foster dog, it can slip rather easily into a daily schedule.
If you are not ready to devote at least
this much time to a new dog, fostering is probably not for you. (There are
many other volunteer opportunities that you could help us with’ see our volunteer opportunites).
Attachment
to personal and household items’ even an adult foster dog may chew on an
inappropriate item or have an accident in the house. This is just part of
adjusting a new dog to home-life, some come in very easy, others can be very
nervous the first couple days and do inappropriate things.
Puppies, well, they are guaranteed to
chew up something you don't want them to and have accidents.
If you want to foster, and you leave
things in a room with an unattended-to dog/puppy, you have to be able to
accept the fact that something you cherish (expensive shoes/craft item, etc)
can get destroyed. It is truly amazing, especially with puppies, what they can
get into when you go into another room, for just a minute.
The reward for fostering
Okay, we
went over the tangible reasons to foster and the solid reasons not to foster,
now comes the part that is a little harder to define.For those of us that have fostered for a while, we can
really feel the reward of all our hard work!
The
basic/easy reward for fostering is seeing one of our foster dogs set off with
their new family, everyone all smiles and eager to start their lives together!
Another
satisfying reward for fostering is getting an update a few months after
adoption (picture included), showing the whole family, dog in the
center! Getting an update a year
or more later with/without picture, telling you how wonderful things still
are and how they couldn't imagine their home without their furry companion is
the ultimate!
These are
all pretty simple, but very motivating rewards. There are some very special rewards that we earn as a result
of fostering dogs/ puppies that require extra effort and time to adjust to home
life, take a little longer to understand basic obedience and take a while to
learn that going new places is fun and not scary. Sending them off happily to
their new homes is very gratifying.
After some
time, you have the reward of looking back at all the dogs/puppies that you have
fostered and you realize you could have never kept ALL of them. But, you WERE able to keep them
temporarily till their permanent home could be found and you did enjoy each
different dog's personality and antics. And, when you have a visit from a
former foster and the family is happy and the dog is happy you forget about
any destruction / messes that they had caused you!
The trials of fostering
To be
honest, it is not all joy and fun fostering there are difficulties and as was
touched on earlier sometimes destruction.
We
recommend and try to adjust all foster dogs (and puppies especially) to crate
training. This can prove interesting to say the least. Some puppies take to
it readily, others will amaze you with their lung capacity and stamina! Some
adults are also pretty good at expressing their dislike of this new
arrangement. On a good note - 99% of all puppies and dogs do adjust to crate
training within a few days. We
recommend to new foster homes that they get their first foster dog on a Fri.
so they have a few days to adjust without having to get up and go to work!
Destruction -- I have been amazed at what some dogs/puppies target for destruction. Shoes and socks are definitely on the
main list they smell like you and provide comfort to the dog / puppy.
They don't mean to be mean it is more
of a compliment!
They miss you and
like you, so they want something that smells like you! (Compliment/not, I
realize only so many shoes can be lost to the teeth of a puppy/dog I've learned
to put them on top of crates!) Wooden furniture - this is a real UGH!, especially if you have some really
nice/antique furniture. There are
ways to prevent damage, but for real precious pieces, not leaving the pup/dog
alone for a second in a room with this piece of furniture is the best
prevention. Possibly even moving the furniture to a room that can be closed off
would be the safest thing to do. And of course, anything that a pup can put in
their mouth, pillows (they are like stuffed toys!) and plastic objects, hard
enough to be interesting, soft enough to break pieces off are always fun to
be able to get a result from the chewing!
House-breaking
accidents -- puppies tend to have more accidents, plus often come into the
organization with worms. Consistency in feeding and potty break schedules
usually gets the housebreaking down within a week. Puppies under 10 weeks of
age usually don't get it’ so if you want to foster pups at this age expect
cleanup time!
No house
manners -- many dogs come into our rescue not realizing that standing up to
check out what's on the counter/table is NOT proper behavior. Again,
consistency and patience is needed in this area.
There are various ways to eliminate this behavior that we
explain and review with a new foster home. Usually this does not take long to
correct. Many dogs also jump up on
people and are pushy about getting people food. All of these are things are examples of inappropriate
behavior, and the foster home needs to correct the dog in these behaviors.
No basic
obedience training -- it is extremely rare that a dog comes in with any basic
obedience training. This is often
a reason people get rid of a dog, no control/communication set up between them
and the dog. We recommend that all
foster homes begin basic obedience training. Sit is very important and the
best/easiest command to start with. The others: down’ stay’ come are commands that the foster can
build on, as they like. This basic
training is really beneficial for a dog going off to his new home. And, it
doesn't require any special knowledge or excess time. We can demonstrate and go
over how to do basic obedience training - it really only takes a few minutes
per day...and as always, some patience.
Other more
serious issues -- we sometimes do get a dog that shows signs of other issues
that are more serious and more difficult to handle. Food aggression, dog/other
pet aggression, avoidance of men/women, severe general shyness, and separation
anxiety are some issues that we may face.
If there is ANY issue with which a foster home is not comfortable, we
remove the dog from the home ASAP, often within hours. The dog will either go
to a more experienced foster home for evaluation and possible correction of the
behavior, or temporarily to a kennel (if acceptable and no other foster home is
available). We have a few
experienced foster homes that can handle multiple dogs, so the majority of the
time, the dogs is moved immediately into one of these homes.
The trials may seem many, but usually you only have one/two minor issues that you
need to work through with an adult dog. These issues may often be cute, but not wanted behaviors, like trying
to crawl on your lap while you are sitting in a chair or expecting people
food. With puppies, it's just
dealing with typical puppy issues as usually they don't really have any bad
behaviors just puppy behaviors. Most dogs are just so happy to have a warm
safe place to sleep and hands to pet them that they are usually very eager to please.They learn what is proper behavior
rather quickly and are very happy to just settle peacefully in the house.
How to let that first foster dog go
This is
often the hardest part of learning to foster -- letting go. Especially letting go of your first
foster dog. You will be so pleased and surprised how easily and how well the
dog has adjusted to your home that you just hate to give them up and just
feel that they have found a home at your place. This is very true if the dog has resided with you for a
month or more. (We refer to it as -- gottadoptimitus syndrome -- as it is very
common.)
If you are
able to let go of that first one and continue fostering, you will soon learn
just how many dogs can readily adapt to your home and be very enjoyable companions!
That is one of the truly nice things about most dogs, they readily adapt to
all kinds of environments and homes.
You will
also open your home to saving more than just this one special dog, as there
are many, many more very special dogs just in need of a little patience to
adjust to home life and some time to find their permanent home.
We also
provide several shoulders to cry on and friends to lean on as your first
special baby walks out the door to his/her new home. We've all been there and
we all understand how difficult it is to let the first one go. Occasionally there is another special
one that comes along the road of fostering that also becomes very difficult to
let go, we've all felt it and gone through it, we are here to support you in
the on-going joy of fostering.
The support system and basics
We provide
new foster homes with a TON of information, about shots, vet visits, crate
training, and housebreaking. You
name it; we probably have an info sheet on it! We also provide all items needed
to foster -- bowls, crates, food, vaccines, preventatives, shampoo, toys,
ANYTHING that is needed for the foster dog and foster home to be successful.
We also
provide telephone numbers and email addresses of our more experienced foster
homes that are available 24/7 if there are any questions that need to be
answered immediately.
We will
also help with screening applicants for new fosters. However, the foster home has the final right of
approval/refusal for whatever reason. Only the foster truly knows the dog and
can really feel if the home is right for the dog.
The emergency system
The
key volunteers whose contact information is provided to you (and there are
several, you are not relying on one person, but a core group of people that can
resolve anything as quickly as possible) are available 24/7. For obvious physical emergencies, the
closest emergency vet to your home is acceptable to our rescue. We will also
remove a foster dog ASAP for whatever reason. We believe that the foster relationship is a partnership of
foster home to foster dog and if it is not working for whatever reason, we
accept that and will provide another location for the dog.
The
joy of the rescue
WOO
HOO! -- Okay, there is A LOT of fun
and joy in rescuing such as the joy of seeing the dogs off to their new homes,
meeting new people and making friends with a group of people who are very
interested in the well-being of the furry kids! The adoption events are always hectic, but very fun, as
many couples, families, and single people are out looking for their match!
Obviously,
all of us that have been doing this for some time, really enjoy all aspects of
the rescue or we wouldn't be continuing to do it, because it is ALL VOLUNTEER
effort, patience, time and commitment! If you
would like to learn more details about fostering and/or how to get started
fostering for our group, you can fill out our online volunteer application,
email our volunteer coordinator, or call our voicemail number.
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